Way to better sex with Mutual masturbation

Love life involves in being intimate to your sex partner and though there are many ways to be closer to him, mutual masturbation is one of the very effective ways of enhancing the level of intimacy next to sexual intercourse. It is very common to know that you masturbate and he also masturbates  and when you do this together it is sure to increase the stimulation and sensations of being together to have a higher level of enjoyment later on bed.

As per sex therapist Danielle Harel, Ph.D. getting off as a pair can become a huge turn on adding more to the ways you enjoy sex in all its glory.  Most of you may feel scary and uncomfortable at first thinking about getting off by mutual masturbation. But, once you do it and find how stimulating it is you will be happy to have discovered one of the best ways of getting released of sexual tension and also enjoy the intercourse in a better way without having to worry about controlling your urge to orgasm early and ending the love making before you feel satisfied.

Here are some of the simple tips that will bring in more enjoyment to your love life by helping you set up the right mood and pace during your mutual masturbation.

Decide about what you want during your mutual masturbation:  when you have decided to do masturbation together it is going to be a great moment in your love life and do not hesitate to discuss what you want during this wonderful time. Make the masturbation together as a way of expression of love towards your mate and help him understand how you want your body to be handled for maximum pleasure. Masturbation more often for men will lower the sensitivity for penis, it can treat premature ejaculation.

Take care to create the right scene for your session: Environment plays an important role in adding to the sensation of the mutual masturbation session says the author of Neuroloveology and the founder of Sexpert Dr. Ava Cadell PhD.,.  So, think about creating the right and safe environment where you both can enjoy together and relax in order to have intimate and loving moments for enhance level of love and attraction.

Get ready for the act with full of eye contact:  when you both have got together and getting ready for a mutual masturbation session, start with a slow but relaxed way of undressing maintaining as much eye contact as possible and this will help you keep focused and you can complement your partner for the looks and the things you see.

Touch yourself more than you normally do: Do not forget that you are putting on a show to help him understand how sensuous your body is and how you want to be touched later during intercourse. Use your fingers and hands lightly and tenderly over the smooth areas of your body. Then you begin touching your breasts and handle them in such a way it makes him feel erotic and then at last go to your genital area and touch and caress yourself as you want to be touched.  Pay more attention to your clitoris and slid your fingers into your vagina to increase the erotic scene that can be further enhanced by your moans and sounds. You can learn how to touch your man and help them to achieve a stronger and harder erection.

Bring in good sex toys:  sex toys are a great way of enhancing the stimulation and if you want and if you think that it is going to be helpful in sexual enhancement, do not hesitate to bring them in. This is going to increase your way of adding fun and intimacy to your love relationship.

Thus, you can use these simple tips and make the mutual masturbation one of the best times in your love life and this is going to enhance the level of enjoyment you both are going to have during your love activities later.

A Few Less Known Facts About Penis

Immortalized on numerous monuments, statues and graffiti on walls around the world, the penis is probably the best known and most researched body part on the planet. Despite that, many people don’t know some basic facts about the penis. These less known facts will help you understand your penis or the penis of your partner and improve your sex life.

Penis average size

According to a study conducted two years ago which involved more than 1500 men, the average length of an erect penis is 14 cm. The range of all participants in this study published in reputable scientific magazines is between 4 and 26 cm. It is good to point out that not all of the erections lead to identical results. Those whose penises were measured after oral sex had larger penises compared to those who relied on the fantasy and masturbation.

Does size matter?

When it comes to penis size, size matters, but only for a certain number of women. According to a survey from 2012, women that experience vaginal orgasms more frequently say that it is much easier for them to achieve orgasm with men who have longer penis. Although it is not entirely clear why, longer penis may be more suitable to stimulate the vagina and cervix. Another study showed that women determine the ideal size of the penis in relation to the height of men which means that bigger penises were more suitable for taller men. Some women would think that stronger and harder erection is more important during intercourse.

Odd anomalies

In very rare cases, men can be born with two penises which is a condition that affects one in 6 million men. This condition is known as difalus. Unfortunately, this situation does not bring double fun because in extremely rare cases both organs are fully functional and this condition is often associated with other anomalies in the genital area requiring surgical corrections.

Men who suffer from another disorder related to the penis – priapism – have a constant erection which sometimes lasts longer than four hours. In most cases the main cause can be found in the inability of the blood in the penis to get back into the rest of the body. This situation usually requires emergency medical treatment that involves injection of pseudoepinephrine in order to activate the smooth muscles found in the penis.

The history of penis

The history of penis is actually a little bit scarier than the human past defined by evolution. At one stage of evolution, the male penis had spikes, but these structures have disappeared before the appearance of the Neanderthals while the penis as we know it today formed about 700.000 years ago.

Scientists today are not entirely sure what was the role of the aforementioned spikes and some of them believe that they were responsible for accelerating of the occurrence of erection and that they were more common in promiscuous species like cats. Another relic of the past is the bone in the penis. Although most of the monkeys have a bone that supports the erections, people at some point lost this bone and the erection relies solely on blood pressure. In other animals, the bone in the penis is inside the body and is expelled out for immediate and reliable erections. It is still unknown why men lost this feature.