The Rare but Present Loss of Libido

The lack of sex drive is an all too familiar occurrence in women; however, it’s an extremely rare occurrence in men. Surprised? Well, even men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and ED often experience normal and very high sex drive.

But as we age, there are many men who start experiencing a diminishing sexual appetite. Oh, the agony! A very slim margin of men has never experienced any sexual desire, ever!

Thankfully, we are in an age where technology and advancement in medical studies and research, many firms and clinics now claim to have treatments that reverse low libido. Other treatments also help men maintain a hard erection.

The unfortunate bit is, these are institutions that come and go. Why because they charge very high costs of soft erection treatment and services that can be done naturally or attained at very cheap/affordable prices.

What gets Rid of Low Libido?

Some of the best treatments that help men get their libido up are usually aphrodisiacs and testosterone injects/pills/supplements. Kindly note that unlike erectile dysfunction levels, the lack of libido in men is rarer than rare.

Such people achieve very strong erections but have zero desire to engage in sexual activity. A lack of sexual desire comes in two formalities; either psychological or physical.

Physical Causes

Obesity which contributes to a loss of sexual desire. The artificial foods that we eat today not only deteriorate out health but also affects our sexual urges. The best thing to fight it is by changing your diet and switching to a healthy living lifestyle.

Alcoholism is also a major concern. The more you let alcohol dictate your life, the more you let it affect your bodily functions. Moderate drinking is the only way to encounter such problems.

Hard Drugs: Whether you, believe it or not, the use of drugs such as heroin, cocaine and prescription meds, can cause you to lose your sexual desires.

Medical conditions such as anemia, where you bleed or have lower blood content in your body. Hyperprolactinaemia an extremely rare disorder that sees the pituitary gland produces excess prolactin hormone, and you lose the sexual desire. 

Psychological Causes

Depression is a common element for most diseases human being suffer from. Depression leads to loss of sexual desire and can even cause erectile dysfunction. Psychology, drugs to beat depression is a perfect way to eradicate this problem.

Serious relationship problems: When you have serious troubles in your relationship, you’ll suffer from a lack of sexual desire. The only way to circumvent such an atrocity is to mending the relationship and getting back to the happiness level and where you want your partner.

The Never Putting a Ring on IT Dilemma

Yes, I too have brushed with a couple of women, who are on the verge of a meltdown since their long-term boyfriends seem not having any interest in marrying them.

There is one interesting conversation I have the other day with a good friend of mine. She was crying that she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for well over four years and never want to discuss marriage.

She turned to me and asked me an honest question; “Are all men liars?” Why Did I ask? “Every guy I have dated end up lying and lying more to me” she quipped!

It got me thinking about all the talk I have heard from lady friends of mine who are engaged in a relationship or married. Some of the issues they were having include:

•                    As happily married as we seem to be, I am unable to get my husband to try to get me into bed

•                    My man seems to have a phobia of wanting sex with me

•                    My man always comes up with an excuse that he was to fast in the sack due to pressure from work or something else flimsy

As you can tell, the string of comments is endless and could take up quite a lot of space here. When I believed, I had enough punter from my lady friends.

I decided to have a seat down with some of my good friends (a doctor and psychiatrist), to try and understand why men of all species were the ones shying away from the sexual activity!

Having To Deal With Maintaining Hard Erection

Well, there are plenty of valid reasons why men pull away. There are plenty more that are flimsy; however, today we concentrate on a real issue that has most men worried.

Did you know that sometimes life catches up with us, and we are unable to think straight let alone struggle to maintain a hard erection?

There are men that have trouble focusing on their work, and thinking of ways to make their relationship better or work for the best. Such concerns stress them up, tensing their bodies up until they are unable to perform at all in bed.

For such men, the alternative they have, since they do not want to be embarrassed is to stay out late, either working or drinking themselves into a stopper. Other perfect the art of coming up with excuses or lies to avoid having intercourse.

What to Do!

If you are a man falling in this bracket, it’s time that you Manned up and got ahead of the game! If you feel ashamed of you lack of getting it up, there are alternatives that you can use.

You can opt for an easier route “Soft erection treatment” or if not do activities that will help you overcome your stress and the situation you are stuck.

A better man, will alter his diet, cut down on his alcohol and cigarette intake and commit himself to a regular workout regime.

So what kind of person are you? A Doer or a Go with the flow kind of Guy? To be great once again, learn your woman, speak to and deliver on her needs.